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Welcome to my blog! What started as a simple space to share my thoughts on the things that matter most to me has grown more than I ever expected. To make it easier for you to find content that interests you, I’ll soon be adding topics and categories to better organize everything. Please pardon the mess during this transition as I work on making the site more user-friendly and organized. See below for the latest posts, and stop by now and then to catch up—you might just find something that resonates or sparks a new idea!

Onside: A Front-Row Seat to MLS Growth - February 24, 2025

I just started watching Onside: Major League Soccer—the first episode is free on Peacock, but the full documentary is on Apple TV. Right from the start, I’m reminded of how far Major League Soccer (MLS) has come and how exciting it has become. The Chicago Fire FC has been part of this journey since 1997, and seeing legends like Cuauhtémoc Blanco, Jorge Campos, Giovani dos Santos, Chicharito, and now Lionel Messi leave their mark on MLS is incredible. Watching David Beckham and Tata Martino’s impact on the league unfold in this documentary makes me appreciate the growth even more.

The visuals are stunning—players training on MLS soccer fields with palm trees in the background, soccer stadiumspacked with energy, and fireworks lighting up the night. It would be a dream to work closer with MLS marketing, but for now, I’m just soaking in the excitement of what’s ahead in MLS 2025. And while my loyalty lies with Chicago Fire and LAFC, I can’t ignore how much LA Galaxy has contributed to MLS history with their championships and legendary signings. This documentary is a must-watch for any soccer fan looking to relive the league’s incredible journey!

Catching Up on Gaming: Rediscovering the Joy of Video Games - February 23, 2025

Video games have been a part of my life for as long as I can remember. From growing up on Nintendo classics to now jumping back into gaming with The Division 2 and (soon) Grand Theft Auto V on my Xbox One, I’m finally catching up on what I’ve missed. Life has a way of pulling us away from our hobbies, and while I haven’t always stayed up to date with the latest and greatest, the excitement of exploring new (or even old) titles never fades. With GTA VI on the horizon and Assassin’s Creed Shadows looking like an absolute must-play, I’m more hyped than ever for what’s to come.

Gaming has also been something I’ve passed down to my son—maybe a little too much. I always remind him (and myself) that responsibilities come first, and while video games are fun, they should never take priority over real-life moments. It’s easy to get lost in a game or even in our phones when we’re with family, but I try my best to stay present, especially when my son is being his silly, entertaining self. That balance is key. Looking ahead, 2025 is shaping up to be a huge year for gaming, and I’m considering grabbing a PS5 to fully experience Assassin’s Creed Shadows, GTA VI, and whatever surprises the Nintendo Switch 2 has in store. Late to the party or not, I’m just excited to be playing again.

MLS Season Kicks Off: The Rise of Soccer in the U.S. - February 22, 2025

The return of the MLS season is always an exciting time, but this year feels extra special. As someone who grew up playing soccer, watching Liga MX with my dad, and now coaching my son’s team, the sport has been a constant in my life. Living in the U.S., I’ve naturally gravitated toward MLS over Liga MX, and while my hometown team, the Chicago Fire, may not be a powerhouse, my love for the league keeps me invested. I proudly support teams like LAFC, and this year, I’m thrilled to welcome San Diego FC to the mix. There’s something special about seeing a city as vibrant as San Diego finally get its own team—it’s a sign of how much soccer continues to grow in this country.

Soccer is the world’s sport. It’s the king of international competition, uniting fans across cultures like no other game can. While basketball, football, and baseball still dominate in the U.S., the growth of soccer is undeniable. With the 2025 Club World Cup and the 2026 World Cup on the horizon, the momentum feels unstoppable. More teams, bigger signings, and passionate fan bases are fueling MLS’s rise, and I hope we continue to see expansion in cities like Sacramento, El Paso, Milwaukee, Phoenix, and Indianapolis. A team in Puerto Rico or even a few new clubs in Canada would be incredible too. The sport I love is finally taking its rightful place in the U.S., and I can’t wait to see where it goes next.

The Real Reason We Scroll - February 17, 2025

Social media is where people express themselves, for better or worse. More than ever, people are unafraid to voice their thoughts, their opinions—just like I’m doing right now. It’s a place for engagement and awareness, much like video gaming. And while all these things can be great, we need to ask ourselves: How do we make others feel?

We can be real. We can be honest. But we can also choose kindness.

With all the tools we have at our fingertips, we should use them for good—not as weapons against ourselves, our children, or our communities. Our society is already breaking apart in ways we can’t ignore. People are more disconnected from their neighbors than ever. I feel it too. I can count on one hand the people who check up on me, yet I check in on many. And I know it’s even worse for others—especially men, who often struggle in silence.

So let’s change that. Let’s use social media to build, not tear down. Let’s prioritize mental health, emotional health, financial literacy, generosity, and learning real skills. Let’s stop relying on screens to replace real relationships and instead be present in our families, our friendships, and our communities.

Social media is powerful. The question is: How will we use it?

Why Saving and Investing is Essential for a Secure Future - February 13, 2025

Life is unpredictable—one moment, everything seems fine, and the next, an unexpected event like a medical emergency, job loss, or major life change can shake things up. That’s why saving money and investing wisely isn’t just a good habit—it’s a necessity. Whether it's putting money into a 401(k), CDs, the stock market, bonds, or even silver and gold, every step taken toward financial security helps. Even keeping some cash on hand can be a game-changer when an emergency arises, or simply when you want to take that well-deserved vacation without debt looming over you.

One of the biggest obstacles to saving is unnecessary spending. We all fall into the trap of buying things we don’t really need—whether it’s the latest gadget, fast fashion, or impulse purchases that just end up collecting dust. Over time, our homes become cluttered, and our bank accounts suffer. Instead, prioritizing needs over wants can make a huge difference in building long-term wealth. The reality is that many of us don’t love our jobs, but by consistently saving and investing in assets that generate passive income—like dividend stocks—we set ourselves up for a future where financial freedom is within reach. Little by little, a little becomes a lot. And with discipline, that "lot" can lead to early retirement, a legacy for our children, and peace of mind for the years ahead.

Support the Re-Introduction of the DACA Bill - February 10, 2025

Congresswoman Sylvia García will reintroduce a critical DACA bill, aiming to provide a path to permanent residency for Dreamers who meet key requirements—such as earning a college degree, maintaining steady employment, and having no criminal record. This bill is an important step in protecting individuals who have lived in the U.S. for most of their lives, contributing to their communities and the economy. While a broader immigration reform or amnesty would be ideal, progress often comes in small but meaningful steps. Supporting this bill is one way to help ensure DACA recipients and others, like those with Temporary Protected Status (TPS), have a fair chance at securing their future.

The best way to support this bill is by calling your state senator and urging them to back it. You can find your senator’s contact information at senate.gov/senators. Your voice matters—direct calls and advocacy efforts can push lawmakers to take action in favor of immigration reform. This bill isn’t just about paperwork; it’s about real people who contribute daily to our society and deserve the opportunity to live without fear of deportation. Let’s take this step forward and support Dreamers on their path to a more secure future.

How I Lost Time but Found a Second Chance in Fatherhood - February 7, 2025

Growing up, I wasn’t the best older brother I could’ve been. I pushed my younger brother away, too caught up in my own world—chasing women, seeking independence, and believing I was too mature to bond with him the way he deserved. Looking back, I see the moments we could have had, the childhood memories left unmade, and I regret how often I distanced myself from him. Maybe our parents didn’t know how to foster a closer bond between us, or maybe I was just too stubborn to listen. Now, he lives across the country, and the physical distance is a heavy reminder of the emotional distance I created in our youth. I wonder if our family dynamics played a role—if generational pride and unspoken wounds from our parents’ sibling relationships made it harder for us to be close. The cycle of sibling separation seems to repeat itself, and I hate that I contributed to it. I love my brother deeply now, and I’ve apologized countless times, but nothing can change the past. If only I could go back and do it differently—be more present, more united, more of the big brother he needed.

Yet, in all of this, I see a second chance at brotherhood—through fatherhood. My son, my new best friend, gives me an opportunity to be better—to be the kind of role model I should have been, but now as a father figure. I hold him, apologize when I’m too harsh, put my phone down to be present in the moment, and cherish every second. Maybe through him, I can rewrite the past in a way—pouring into him the love, guidance, and connection I wish I had fully given my brother. My family is still here, and while we can’t turn back time, we can make the most of what’s left. I just hope God forgives me for my past mistakes and that, in loving my son the right way, I can somehow make things right.

Want a Chicago Fire FC License Plate? Here’s How We Can Make It Happen! - February 6, 2025

Chicago Fire FC fans, it’s time to show your team pride on the road! In 2023, the State of Illinois passed a bill allowing us to get official Chicago Fire FC vanity license plates, but there’s a catch—we need 2,000 people to sign up before they become a reality. Right now, I’m the only person who has signed up, but I know we can make this happen if we come together! All you have to do is call the Secretary of State at (217) 782-7758 and ask for Jack. He’ll direct you to fill out form VSD702 and submit a $25 fee to the Secretary of State. It’s that simple!

Don’t let this opportunity slip away—Fire fans deserve to represent their team just like other Chicago sports! Spread the word, make the call, and let’s turn our passion into a reality. 🚗🔥 #ChicagoFireFC #CF97 #SupportYourClub

Guiding and Praying for Your Children: A Parent’s Role in Setting Them Up for Success - February 5, 2025

Parenting is a journey of guidance, patience, and faith. As parents, we serve as barriers along the road of life, helping our children navigate their way toward a bright future. A father on one side, a mother on the other—both providing structure, support, and direction. When both parents are involved, the child moves forward with confidence, avoiding pitfalls that could lead them astray. However, when one parent is absent, that road can become dangerously close to a cliff, making guidance even more crucial. It’s not about controlling their path but rather helping them understand their options, breaking down complex lessons into something they can grasp, and encouraging their natural interests. Whether it’s enrolling them in activities that spark curiosity, exposing them to different career paths, or simply being present in their everyday moments, the goal is to equip them with the tools to make informed choices about their future—without pressure or fear of failure.

Just as guidance is essential, so is prayer. Praying for your child is one of the most powerful ways to protect and support them. A simple prayer as they board the school bus, asking for a safe and enriching day, or a whispered request for healing when they are sick, reinforces our faith and offers them unseen strength. Even at night, when shadows seem bigger and nightmares feel real, teaching them to pray fosters courage and reassurance. A quick tuck-in, a comforting word, and a reminder that they are not alone can make all the difference. Parenting is not just about providing shelter and opportunities—it’s about being present, available, and intentional in how we guide them. Through faith, patience, and love, we help them stay on course, empowering them to discover their own purpose while knowing they are always supported.

The United States: A Nation Built by Immigrants, Sustained by Hard Work - February 3, 2025

Immigrants have always been the foundation of the United States, from the early European settlers to today's diverse communities from Latin America, Asia, and beyond. Songs like Ricardo Arjona’s Mojado, Kap G's A Day Without a Mexican and films such as A Better Life, A Million Miles Away, and Goal! resonate deeply with me, reflecting the struggles many families have faced—and continue to face—in pursuit of a better future. Every generation of immigrants has sought opportunity, security, and the chance to build something greater for the next generation. This nation has been shaped by those who dared to start anew, including the ancestors of leaders like President Trump, whose wife, Melania Trump, came from Europe (Yugoslavia), and Vice President JD Vance, whose wife, Usha Vance, is the daughter of Indian immigrants. 

To honor our immigrant roots and continue building upon the legacy of our ancestors, the United States needs comprehensive immigration reform. Providing amnesty to those who have contributed for years, paid taxes, maintained good legal standing, and emerged from the shadows is essential. At the same time, immigrants must respect the opportunities this country provides, embracing gratitude, hard work, and a willingness to integrate while honoring their roots. Pride in our origins is natural, but it should not divide us. Instead, we should focus on unity, learning to coexist, and working toward a better future together. Investing in immigration reform will ensure that the United States remains strong, diverse, and full of opportunity for generations to come.

Why P.O.D. Deserves a Movie: The Fundamental Elements of Southtown - February 2, 2025

P.O.D. isn’t just a rock band—they’re a movement. From the moment The Fundamental Elements of Southtown hit MTV, I was hooked. Their fusion of rock, hip-hop, and faith spoke to something deeper in me, and over the years, their music has been a constant source of inspiration. I’ve been fortunate enough to see them live, and each concert felt like more than just a show—it was a reminder that faith and music can collide in powerful, life-changing ways. A film about P.O.D. would be more than just a story of a band; it would be a testament to the lives they’ve touched, the struggles they’ve endured, and the legacy they continue to build. A title like The Fundamental Elements of Southtown would be perfect, capturing their roots, their journey, and the impact they’ve had on a generation. Tracks like Alive and Tribal still hit just as hard today, reminding me that being Christian isn’t about following rules or institutions—it’s about a personal, raw, and real connection with God. P.O.D. helped me see that faith isn’t about being perfect—it’s about reaching those who are lost, not just preaching to those already saved. Their story deserves to be told, and I’d be first in line to watch it.

Weekend Market Chaos: How Trump’s Tariffs Create Buying Chances - February 1, 2025

Trump’s tariffs on Mexico, Canada, and China are sending shock waves through the stock market right now, triggering a sell-off as investors panic ahead of Monday. But history shows that when fear grips the market, it creates a prime buying opportunity for those willing to take calculated risks. While retail investors dump stocks, billionaire elites and institutions are likely accumulating shares at bargain prices. Key sectors like technology, automotive, and consumer goods may face short-term losses, but long-term investors can capitalize on undervalued opportunities. Instead of following the crowd, savvy investors should consider running in the opposite direction and seizing the moment before the market stabilizes.

Cultivating Values: Reaping What We Sow in a Disconnected World - January 28, 2025

In today’s fast-paced society, we often ask for empathy and understanding during our struggles, yet we frequently fall short of extending the same grace to others. Here in the United States, we’ve lost touch with the values that foster true community—caring for our neighbors, showing kindness, and putting others before ourselves. It all begins with character: being truthful, generous, and using kind words instead of harsh ones. Simple acts like being present, putting the phone down, and prioritizing meaningful connections over fleeting distractions can have profound ripple effects. By choosing to live with integrity—staying faithful in relationships, avoiding harmful substances, and seeking to uplift others—we can rebuild the sense of community we’ve lost. Ultimately, the way we treat others reflects the harvest we’ll reap in our own lives. Let’s start sowing seeds of kindness and care, one small action at a time.

Kindness and Gratitude in a Divided Nation - January 20, 2025

Watching the Trump inauguration today, along with several other inaugurations in the past, has deepened my appreciation for the strength of our democracy, the power of our voices, and the impact of freedom and liberty in the United States. Our government's decisions affect us all, especially as we navigate challenges like rising costs of food, healthcare, and housing. Reflecting on the last four years, I was struck by the absence of prayers for Joe Biden during the ceremony. While he may not have been our greatest president, he led with humility and generosity, deserving kindness and encouragement in his advanced age. Yet, too often, Americans respond with unkindness and negativity. It's time we return to core values like kindness, gratitude, and compassion for our neighbors, building a stronger nation and communities that uplifts each other instead of tearing each other down.

Why Following Trends is Holding Us Back - January 18, 2025

Social media has turned into a hub of trends where originality takes a back seat. Everyone is copying the same ideas, leaving little room for genuine creativity. This isn't just a social media issue - it's spilling into our daily lives. Did you know that 66% of people admit they're addicted to their phones? Studies also show that excessive screen time can lower intelligence levels and decrease focus, especially among younger generations. Deep down, we've always been trailblazers, innovators, and leaders, yet this endless cycle of imitation is holding us back. Meanwhile, other nations are rapidly advancing, prioritizing technology and innovations while we're glued to entertainment apps. The truth is, the world doesn't need more followers - it needs thinkers, creators, and doers. Let's break the cycle, embrace our unique voice, and lead the way for future generations. It's time to put down our phones and start creating the future we want to see.